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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 10:39

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

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33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

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How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

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Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

Why is there no great temptress figure in any of Tolkien’s major works?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

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5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

Would you read them together?

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19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

39~ What are your love languages?

Who is the king of Hollywood?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

*** Questions About Me ***

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

How do I know if I am a bitch? I try to be a nice person but people often jokingly call me a bitch. My family calls me a bitch sometimes too.

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

The Ice Breaker Questions

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

Why do many Hong Kong Chinese look different from the Han Chinese in mainland China?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

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42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

Is it okay for me to wear girls’ underwear?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

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18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

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If yes, what?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

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13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Why do flat Earthers still exist even though it is scientifically proven that the Earth is spherical?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

Any that are a turn off?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

52~ What are your hobbies?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

What is your favorite position? Why?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

Family Relation Age Play

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

If you win, what will you make them do?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

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48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Please share Did you stop?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

*** Random Questions ***

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

29- How superstitious are you?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

Nothing too Serious

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

Any that are a turn off?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?